This past Sunday, we had the second part of the Spiritual Gifts. My sister does a “pow wow” with the pre-teen girls. She prints off the PowerPoint slides with lines on the side for notes. I take these print outs as well. I was looking through the slides before the sermon started and there it was… a slide that simply said “Husbands and Wives.” I started silently freaking out a little bit. Any type of talk with “Husbands and Wives” in a sermon, freaks me out because I don’t know what it will entail. Will it be the whole “Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve” talk?
I kept an open heart and an open mind. I was getting a lot out of the sermon and my heart stopped a little bit when the “Husbands and Wives” slide showed up on the overhead projector. Here is what it was about:
”Women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the law says. If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in church.”
1 Corinthians 14:34-35
The church had a good laugh about this because the pastor’s wife is also a co-pastor. She is a very outspoken force in the church. The pastor goes on to say that this was written for the situation at that time. It was chaos back then. The men sat in a different section from the women. The women would yell up to their husbands to have them explain what the service was about. Let me repeat a key phrase in this entire paragraph:
THIS WAS WRITTEN FOR THE SITUATION AT THAT TIME.
This is what I needed to hear from out of a pastor’s mouth. God’s word is very, very important part of a Christian’s life. It is life. But it was written thousands and thousands of years ago. A lot of it is timeless. But there is a lot that was written for that time.
As time goes on and as I get closer to God. I begin to understand myself more and that being me is what He wants. He has plans for my authentic self. And I love that and I can’t wait to see what He has in store for me.