Thanksgiving was pretty cool this year! Let me expand on that.
First of all, Thanksgiving landed on my Honey Bee’s birthday this year. Even though they don’t observe it in New Zealand, it was still pretty cool to me! And I am so thankful for her and her kids! She said that my mom posted a happy birthday post on her Facebook Wall. I love that!!
Secondly, the Thanksgiving lunch feast thingy wasn’t all that bad. I’m pretty much very socially awkward. I don’t like being around a ton of people. Especially acquaintances. This year we went to my oldest sister’s in-laws. We went there because my nephew was there and he’s leaving for Germany for 3 years on Monday. So, of course, I was going to be wherever he is.
My family stayed in the dining room which was very comforting to me. We had some laughs and good food. Then we bothered our kids with tons of pictures cuz that is how we do.
Thirdly, my kids and I went home and had a quiet evening. I watched a movie with my youngest as my oldest slinked away to my room to watch YouTube videos. I also did some coloring cuz now I’m obsessed with this whole adult coloring your stress away stuff.
Lastly, my older sister came home with my baby niece. We watched the football game. Bears vs. the Packers. BEAR DOWN!!!
My Honey Bee sent me a text saying that the football game was on over there too. So we watched it “together”. It was so neat! Even her kids were cheering on Da Bears. My sister was teaching her the rules of the game and asking her non football related questions. Which makes me so very happy!!! I love when my family interacts with my girlfriend. It gives me the way fuzzies.
Most importantly, DA BEARS WON!!! Woo hoooo!!! We won against the Packers in Lambeau Field on Thanksgiving during the whole Brett Favre honoring-retiring-his-jersey-number-thingy. *does a cartwheel poorly*
All in all, I can honestly say this was one of my favorite Thanksgivings.
Something special happened when I met someone at my age and have her turned my world upside and rearrange what I thought about relationships and love.
When I met her, we were both saying that we were Bi. As time went on, she blew that all apart. I was scared and a little crazy (OK, maybe a lottle) about my sexuality and then she showed me what a true partner was supposed to be. Loyal. Supportive. Trustworthy as well as trusting. Caring. I could go on and on about what her character traits are. I’m just trying to get my point across that I know now what a healthy relationship looks like and what it feels like. And I’m never going back again!!
She tells me that she never makes a big deal about her birthday but that was before she met me. Her birthday is a big deal. Especially to me.
365 days I was blessed with her smiles. 365 days I was able to hear her giggles. 365 days of nerdy fandom discussions. 365 days of feeling like I am the most beautiful person in her eyes. Even when I didn’t look so beautiful. 365 of hearing her amazing kiwi voice telling me that she hearts me. 365 days of her eye rolling when I say don’t understand why they say toMAHto but not poTAHto.
Here’s to another amazing 365 days. I look forward to every one of them. They will always and forever be a big deal to me. I don’t think there will ever be enough days to tell you how very special you are to me.
Now the next 25 days are in no particular order. I’m just going to list things randomly.
I wanna bring up the weather this week. It has been beautiful! I’ve been able to go for walks on my lunch break and that is amazing for November! I am very thankful that I was able to go one more week of lunch time walks.
Seriously, people, this woman… let me tell you!
Ok. So I don’t have all year to tell you why I’m thankful for my Honey Bee. She is beautiful and kind. She is loving and funny. She’s sexy and nerdy. She’s my everything. She has stuck around when others would have cursed my name and slammed the door in my face. She is so supportive and always thinks of me first. (Which, by the way, I don’t ask her to. She just does.) I know that will always be me and her vs. the world. She’s got my back and I got hers. I adore her!! And I’m not letting her go!!
And her Baby Bees!! Ok. So they’re not babies. They are the same age as my girls. But they are so awesome. They are so funny and I know they love me as much as I love them. I can’t wait to give them big ole American sized hugs!! I have never wanted to be a step mom before. But man, do I want to be their step mom! I really do!!
My girls are my life! They brighten up my life in so many different ways. They are certainly Yin and Yang. My oldest is laid back. My youngest is very charismatic. They are both creative in their own ways. One loves to draw and the other writes amazing stories. They both have their own sense of humor and they genuinely make me laugh.
I am so very proud of them. I can not wait to see what they do in the future to make this world a better place because they have definitely made my world a better place. I just love them so much!!
I really can not say all of the reasons for why I’m thankful for my mom. She has done so much for me and my girls. She is always there for us. She watches the girls with no complaints. She is an awesome cook and baker. She always helps me when I ask her to pick the girls up from school or if I need a little extra cash for gas.
I am just so very thankful for her. She is responsible for who I am today. She is the definition of a loving and helpful mom. I just love her so much!
I’m going to do the whole 30 days of Thankfulness that people usually do on Facebook. But since I no longer login to Facebook, my lovely followers and WordPress readers get see who and what I’m thankful for. LUCKY YOU!!
Of course, God is number One on my Thankful list. He is the creator of all of the beauty around us. He is the creator of all of my friends and family. He is the creator of me. He is the creator of my Honey Bee. But what I’m most thankful for is sending His only begotten Son. I am thankful for His Grace and Forgiveness. I am thankful for the peace that I feel within my soul.
My hope is for others to know about His Love and Grace. And if you’re different and you were told that He hates you or that you’re not worthy, I hope you will see that God loves you for who you are because He created you perfectly. You are special. Do not EVER forget that.